September 20, 2013. Divorces are filled with feelings ranging from anger to hopelessness. People sometimes lose their cool when arguing about children, money, or shocking surprises, such as an affair or unknown credit issues. It is paramount that if you find yourself in an overly heated situation with your spouse, that you remove yourself from the situation. Physical violence is never acceptable; neither is emotional or verbal abuse. If you lose control, be prepared for your spouse to ask the court to issue an emergency no contact order. If this happens, seek legal counsel immediately. More importantly, avoid putting yourself in a situation where you may become the target of a no contact order in the first place, whether it is warranted or not. No contact orders can be used to gain favor in a child support case. Most no contact orders are legitimately sought, but some are not.
As difficult as it may be, communicate in a professional, civil manner with your spouse. Do not continue to text them or email them if they ask you to stop. Do not ever threaten them in person or by text/email. If you engage in this type of behavior and a no contact is issued, your case has been severely damaged. There may be other consequences from this type of order as well. As hard as it may be, you must maintain control over your emotions; you must for the sake of your children and yourself.
If you are the one being threatened or harassed, inform your spouse that you do not want further contact and to communicate through your attorney. Always inform your attorney of this type of behavior so they can fully assess the situation with you and your options. If you are the victim of physical violence, call the police immediately to report the assault and write out a witness statement. Consent to photographs to document any injury. Contact your attorney and also consider seeking out your local domestic violence council for counseling services if needed.
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